paul massa

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Gender:
Man
Age:
53
Name:
paul massa
<p>I'm ideally looking for a long-term relationship and dont matter if you live in the same state as me or not but I can always use more friends. Take a look at my profile and let me know if you're interested in emailing me and my name is Paul.If you want to contact me then here is my email which is massaman at charter dot net and the old saying goes in any relationship it is not about the age,not about the distance,not about communicating every moment of everyday and what's important is having trust and loyalty.The trust of a woman to her man and the loyalty of a man to his woman.Honest communication is top priority for me. I  want a woman who answers questions honestly, and perhaps even volunteers information. I want a woman who confidently asks for her wants and needs to be met. I want a woman who can see the truth and tell it like it is while communicating with kindness. I just want a woman who can communicate without being too critical, who cares about preserving his and her dignity. I want a woman to choose me out of want rather than out of desperation — either materially or emotionally. I desire to feel I am in need to be wanted and needed by my partner, but I want my partner to have a separate identity. I want a woman to be active and independent, to have her own friends and interests.I want no manipulation of any kind. I do not want to read my partner’s mind or try to interpret signals. I do not want to be forced to move faster in a relationship than I am ready. I do not want to be manipulated into taking all the blame for things gone wrong. I do not want to be on the receiving end of game playing.I want a partner who can laugh at herself and who has courage and strength. I want a woman who can see her part in relationship dynamics and own it. She has to be emotionally stable. I want a woman who is developing herself personally, and who takes responsibility for her emotional experience.Fidelity is an absolute must. In fact, I want a woman who does not have a “roaming eye” and who can wholeheartedly commit to the relationship. Many may define commitment as fidelity plus the willingness to work on the relationship — even when the going gets tough.Many women treat men in ways that diminish their egos, making them feel inadequate. I would rather have more praise, more acknowledgment of what I do right, more acknowledgment that I am one  who is loved and appreciated by my partner as I acknowledge the same thing back to my partner.If this sounds good to you then email me</p>