Carpediem914

So I'm Baaaaaaaaaaack.....Should I feel good about that? Please read my profile before you just say hi. Please realize I have achieved great success in my field. I am independent, single man that get's labeled "the player" stereotype because of what I do for a living. I fit none of the stereotypes typically applied ,I live alone in Hell's Kitchen, have no debt, value my friends and family. At this time, I won't settle and want 1 person that I ache to be with when I am not! I am aching to share a whole lotta good love , laughter, conversation, family and friends. READ ON......People who work in the Airlines have work best in Long relationships since they have flexibility and the ability to travel at whim! LOL I know. GOOD LUCK TO ME! MY favorite new saying....."The only real Death, is the death we die everyday from not living!" So I'm here on this site cause you never know? I'd rather get off here because of an amazing relationship. I'm not a big e-mail person, I prefer to exchange 1 or 2,then share a phone conversation to see if the is repoire and take it from there. You ask why am I on this site? Well I prefer to meet someone outside of my work circle of friends. I live in NYC, Hell's Kitchen to be exact, I LOVE IT! I Studied accounting in school but realized I couldn't deal with the suit and tie / 9-5 lifestyle. I followed a whim a few friends nudged me in the direction of and haven't looked back. I'm a professional Actor. I Have been blessed to performed in all areas of the media but I'm A BROADWAY baby! I have performed here in NYC , National tours, all over the country and Europe! I loved to see the world! Recent trips were a 13 week tour of CHINA, Paris, Argentina! I have been blessed with all my travels in this 19 yr career. I don't fit the mold, SO DON'T PREJUDGE ME! I always give an adult beverage and conversation the chance to feel a person out.I have great instincts and I hope you do too. I'm fit, funny, spiritual, sensitive, secure both emotionally and finacially,& very into meeting someone who is similar! I have a second career as an Event Coordinator. I have for the recent 5 yrs and I love that aspect of my life also! My life is all about striving for balance in work & play. If interested in sharing an adult libation & conversation say hi, but please have a picture, If you don't have one posted I won't reply! Please live and/or work within the MTA service area. LOLOL Thanks have a great Day!.I wish anyone who read this far...THANKS for reading and if you do reply give me some info on how to say hello
ADDED Oct 15th,11 : Please do not be insulted But I am NOT giving up my only True day of happiness watching Football on Sundays for meeting someone for the first time or someone who I am not in a relationship with! I am tired of serial daters! I DO wish to meet someone spectacular and build something great with!
ADDED Dec 21,11 if you got this far...Happy Holidays to you and your Family!

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What I’m doing with my life

My life is all about striving for balance in work & play. If interested in sharing a cocktail and conversation say hi...but please have a picture, If you don't have one posted I won't reply....I'm a REAl, Grounded person, even dealing with my crazy business. I'm a balnce of left and right thinkinging.....I would someone chill, inspiring me as I inspire them....i have great morals and family and friends are even more important in my life thru these later years!!!

I’m really good at

Making conversation, making people feel relaxed in tense situations, cooking,,,I love to create dishes with my impulses when i go shopping at the market....people telling me their life story when I didn't ask.....( not that it's a good or bad thing), a natural therapist...making lemonade out of lemons....!

The first things people usually notice about me

My big smile, white teeth included, big brown eyes and long eyelashes, sense of humor!

Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food

__Books___ I like to read when have the time but I usually like to expand my philisophical side with spiritual books....IE: Seat of the Soul, Way of the Peacefull warrior , Real magic,Conversations with God, the Power of Now, and many others.....
Movies--- too many to list...
Music--- Everything to fit the mood...
Food--- Sushi, mexican, Italian, Indian,Thai,
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The six things I could never do without

1. my family & friends
2. my sense of humor dealing with life's challenges
3. my apt in Hell's Kitchen
4. a gym/my Bicycle
5. Peanut butter
6. Vodka
6a.Sushi
6b.A beach
6c. mexican food
6e chinese food HECK I love all food!!!


On a typical Friday night I am

Chillin with friends.....or sleeping from a crazy week, or partying to induce a deep sat morning sleep, or visiting my sister and neice...Who know's life's impulses changes moment to moment!...Love it all!but I do miss having a grounding influence and amazing woman to share it with.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit

I'm a really a nice guy trying to be a bad boy, although some women have brought out the bad boy at times in my life......( in a sexy good way!) I miss the warmth and intimacy of being in a relationship, waking up to look over to my sleeping girl and thinking how lucky I am, and what will I do in the day that makes her think the same thing!

I’m looking for
•Girls who like guys
•Ages 28-48
•Near me
•Who are single
• For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

You should message me if

You want to explore possibilities! There is no pressure to see if we share great conversation, chemistry, and passion...if not a great friendship may come out of it! I'm loyal to a fault, looking for a great girl to share amazing times, famiy, friends, and lots of s--!!!! What can i say I have lot's of passion on pleasing my mate! IF YOU ARE READY!

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