rayinfla

I am a dwm (yes, divorced) who is uninterested in marriage or living with someone. I am seeking a married/attached BF who would might have a reason for having a new, discreet male friend outside her current relationship. This is not for everyone but since I've had this exact situation before I know there are some who are looking for the same arrangement.

I am looking for someone who wants a discreet but long term friendship-based relationship; I'm definitely NOT interested in one-night stands. I'm looking for a real friendship based on shared interests and compatible personalities.

I have no preconcieved ideas of the type of woman I'm hoping to find. In the case of a special friendship such as I seek the usual measures of attraction aren't as important as the interpersonal chemistry. I suppose someone over 40 would be best so we share some of the same experiences in life. I do know that if you're a self-important diva we will not compatible.

It is my preference to date mostly BFs so I'm not new to IR dating or looking for a 'thrill'. I also know what to do... and what NOT to do... to make a special relationship like this work.

Questions encouraged. I am sincere and looking for the same.