copasetic

First off: In spite of everything I have experienced, I have more blessings that I will EVER deserve. You just gotta look for them. The world is an awesome place full of wonderful people :) Das Leben ist wunderbar!

I'm a goof! Silly, sincere, faithful, spiritual, curious, consistent, compassionate, affectionate, connected, sincere, communicative, loyal, persistent, wacky, stable, talkative, quiet (yeah right), forgiving, patient, love children (I have two girls). Romance is great, I love attention, giving and getting. I also like doting (or does that fall under "attention")? :) Little stuff, random events, planned stuff, new things, what we did yesterday, last year, never tried. Life is so awesome and there's SO Much of it! It's amazing!

I like to fix breakfast in bed, picnics, boat rides. Drives to nowhere at a moment's notice. Stay up all night solving the world's problems or deciding if the stars "was made or just happened" (bonus points if you can tell me where that's from)."

Dress up and go out, or go camping and not worry about the rest, all of it. Anything in between! I love being stylish, too.

I like being happy and bubbly, I have lots of energy. You can decide if this is a threat or promise, :) I desire meaning in all I do, and I can be passionate about just about anything.

I'm not afraid of being spiritually and emotionally close, it's strength! In fact that's what I need. . If I feel emotionally connected I won't complain. I'm not afraid of deep philosophical conversation, either. I find it very attractive and stimulating.

I'm pretty out there AND down to earth. I refuse to be bored. Life is an amazing gift. I try to be positive about everything, it's not OPPosition but OPPortunity. Stuff happens, we fall. and get back up. :)

I've decided I don't mind drama around me. I'm not kidding. Baggage welcome here. No one is perfect. We all have something or we'd not be here, would we? Bring it Just keep communicating with me. I'll support you with just about anything you have if you can be yourself around me, talk to me about it, and I will respect you more. It's about unconditional acceptance, right? Accountability, communication and all that stuff, and so on and so forth.

I seek a stable lifestyle, and it honestly doesn't take a lot to make me happy, if it's the right thing. I love being a Dad. family is awesome! :) That said, sitting and just "being" is awesome I won't treat others like I want to be treated: the "golden Rule" isn't meant like that, your feelings matter too, and you have the right to say what YOU need. I try not to assume. We are all unique. That said, spontaneity is great! I am wide open, consistently...everything all at once. I think they call that Focused Chaos. Or something.

There's a lot in my life I still want to do, things I miss, you're never too old unless you THINK you are :) Lots of activities I wanna try, lots of new things, and places to go! I can hang my hat here and travel! Meh, that's the quirky side of me.
But the stable side of me loves my family and community. I am consistent in those things.

Relationships take WORK or they end up very one-sided. You can only do 50% of it :) I'm not afraid of carrying my 50%. But that also means sticking by you and you by me when we have to take a little more for a while. I don't give up.

I'm ENFP, ADD and a Gemini. I hope you can keep up :) Anyway, thanks for stopping by :) keep smiling. It's contagious.