Jon Lee

<p><span>I would like to think of myself as a humble, happy go unlucky kind of guy, drenched in sarcasm and quick wit. I treat people the way I would like to be treated I've never been married, no children, and as one time bonus, no restraining orders.</span><br /><br /><span>California leads the the world in superficiality and materialism. I think many men in this country (especially the younger generation) have evolved into PC wussies and don't know how to be a man in many senses, including taking the reigns of a relationship. Love me/hate me, I will shoot it to you straight, not backing down from my core beliefs, giving/expecting respect.</span><br /><br /><span>Since this is a interracial dating website I will say that in my opinion that many (not all) "white" women in the states are way too demanding (entitled) as a general rule. I think black and hispanic women have a tougher life to tow on average as far as family and career responsibilities. Interesting statistic below, since most so called "relationship experts" say that the more you have in common with a person ( including race) the better chance you have for a long lasting relationship/marriage. This research below blows that theory out of the water.</span><br /><br /><span>A 2008 study by Jenifer L. Bratter and Rosalind B. King conducted on behalf of the Education Resources Information Center examined whether crossing racial boundaries increased the risk of divorce. Using the 2002 National Survey of Family Growth (Cycle VI), the likelihood of divorce for interracial couples to that of same-race couples was compared. In the case of Black wife/White husband marriages, divorce by the 10th year of marriage is 44% less likely than among White/White unions.</span><br /><br /><span>Why are Hurricanes named after women from California?</span><br /><br /><span>Because when they first arrive they are wet and wild, but when they leave they take your house and your cars.</span></p>
<p>I"M LOOKING FOR:</p>
<p><span> I desire a woman who doesn't take herself/life too seriously, and can make light of this world and our idiosyncrasies, while looking at the big picture. One of the keys to LTR/marriage success is being selfless and living for the other person, which is a foreign concept to many in America's corrupted Kardashian Culture.</span><br /><br /><span>One thing that I do think is important that you have in common with a future mate (marriage) is that you both are on the same spiritual page. I am a Christian with that world view, which doesn't mean I won't listen to another point of view or opinion. I'm not a evangelical Bible thumper by any means, as there is plenty of deception in mainstream Christianity, just as the secular world and other beliefs. But I don't buy those "Coexist" bumper sticker philosophy which entails that as long as your searching for the truth ( Christianity, Islam, Hinduism, Atheism, ect.) that your on your own personal path to enlightenment. All roads DON"T lead to Rome in my opinion. The FACT is that there can only be "ONE" absolute TRUTH,( evolution, mankind seeded by aliens, reincarnation, Christianity,ect.) They can't ALL be right. THE PC way of today is to cherry pick what ever works for you and NEVER offend anyone else. Hence, the line I hear often "I'm NOT religious, but I'm very spiritual". Going to YOGA classes doesn't count. (wink).</span></p>
<p><span> As you can see I enjoy a good debate, about spiritual beliefs,philosophy, social engineering, politics, ect., so I'm looking for mental stimulation just as much as physical attraction. </span></p>